Showing posts with label breastfeeding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label breastfeeding. Show all posts

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Instead of buying babies, Salma breastfeeds


I would just like to say how awesome it is for Salma Hayek to have single-handedly booted western attitudes towards breastfeeding forward by a century or so by cross-nursing a little baby in Sierra Leone. It's really unfortunate that in this day and age, even in Australia, people are willing to express negative attitudes towards breastfeeding and actively discourage mothers from doing so. I was really, really pleased to see overwhelmingly positive comments even on sites like the Courier Mail that are usually a conservative clusterfuck of a hatefest. Hopefully the example of Salma Hayek will go a long way to ensuring a permanent change in the way society views this perfectly natural practice that is still the only way to ensure that babies are optimally nourished- and that includes cross-nursing, wet-nursing or the provision of donor breast milk when the mother is unable to breastfeed.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

*Sputter*


What the fuck is wrong with the News Limited papers?

Some WalMart employee in the US stole a picture of Britney Spears' younger sister Jamie Lynn Spears breastfeeding her baby daughter.

How on earth someone hears 'breastfeeding' and thinks "PORN STORM!!!!" is just totally beyond my comprehension. I believe it was The Sun in the UK that came up with the headline, but fellow Murdoch News Limited rags in Australia decided to appropriate it wholesale. To the 'journalists', sub-editors and editors at News Limited who had anything to do with okaying that 'article' for display on your websites- you are a despicable bunch of twisted perverts and should be ashamed of yourselves.

The good news here is that despite being a poor role model for teenage girls in the US by not practicing safe sex, Jamie Lynn is at least setting a good example to her multitude of pregnant teenage peers by breastfeeding, in a country with one of the poorest rates of breastfeeding in the world. Wouldn't that be a better focus for a news item?

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Guide to breastfeeding in Australia

Linda McIver has written a very valuable opinion piece on breastfeeding for WAtoday.com.au, largely centred on the outright disapproval she experienced from family, friends and Australian society at large when she 'failed' to stop breastfeeding the second the clock ticked midnight on her daughter's first birthday.

Australia has some serious issues with its attitude to breastfeeding, and the more that can be done to counter those the better. Go and have a read.

I've also put together a user's guide called Breasts in Australia: What's acceptable and what's not:

Acceptable:



Flashing your boobs at Indy. Wooo! Shaahsyatits!


Flaunting your boobs in Ralph magazine (but no nipple! That would be obscene!)


Flaunting your boobs in FHM (but again- no nipple!)


Flaunting your boobs in Zoo Weekly- A-OK as long as there's no nipple.


Breastfeeding: as long as you do it at home for an age-appropriate offspring of your own and keep the frightful business from assaulting the eyes of the good citizens of Australia, breastfeeding is fine.




Not acceptable:




Breastfeeding in public: for god's sake woman! Don't you know that the minute your breasts are used for their primary biological purpose they become obscene? Put them away!

Oh heavens, a travesty on two counts! Breastfeeding in public is bad enough- When it's a child over 12 months old? Practically a hanging offence! That said, if you're interested in posing topless for a men's magazine after weaning the brat, you (and your boobs) are welcome.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Harassment of breastfeeding mothers


Unbelieveable.

Sharleen Salmon, who works at the Westfield Mall in Marion, Adelaide, said she felt harassed and embarrassed when a woman and a cleaner complained about her using the room during her half-hour lunch break.

The young mum, who recently returned to work to support her family, said: "I was in a private area (in the parents room) behind the curtain and this cleaner just walked in on me and watched what I was doing," the Guardian Messenger reported.

"She told me the parents room was for parents and breastfeeding only - and that I wasnt allowed to eat lunch in there.

Ms Salmon said she was using a standard breast pump to express milk to feed her baby daughter Justice, who was being cared for by her father.

Ms Salmon, who expresses milk once a day, said she was followed back to work by a security guard and a police officer, who said a formal complaint had been made to centre management.

"They told me that a little kid had been running around in the parents room and had briefly seen what I was doing and had complained to its mum," she said.

"The mum then complained to security and the cleaner came in to inspect what I was doing. They told me the complaint was that there was a topless woman eating her lunch in the parents room.

"Its tough enough that I have to do this during my break, but for a complaint to be made about me doing it, is really upsetting.

Westfield management did not return several calls for comment


No, I take that back: it's quite believeable. During the course of my interviews with Sudanese women living in Brisbane, I've heard some genuine horror stories about breastfeeding in public, and frankly most of them are scared to do it, either because they've been told it's illegal or because of people like that Westfield security guard and the cleaner and the unspeakably stupid woman who complained and dobbed in that poor lady for committing the 'crime' of expressing breast milk in a parent's room specially set aside so that breastfeeding mothers can hide themselves from public view. They shouldn't bloody well have to in the first place, mind (though the mechanics of expressing may require it), but the idea that they can be followed and harassed by ignoramuses such as the woman who made the complaint, and that security guard and cleaner is utterly appalling.

Get this- a large number of the women I have interviewed compare Australia to Egypt when it comes to our attitude to breastfeeding in public. Egypt. A very conservative, muslim country where most women wear headscarves. It really is that bad here.

I'd like to see anyone who complains about or harassess any woman who is acting to provide her baby with breastmilk, either through breastfeeding or expressing, be dragged off and questioned by the cops themselves, the same as if they harassed or intimidated any other person going about their normal business. As for that woman who made the complaint based on what her child saw- I can't believe someone would teach their kid that boobs are evil and bad and something to be complained about. For christ's sake, what a twisted thing to do to a child.

Breastfeeding is a fucking right. Anyone who behaves otherwise and tries to impinge on that right ought to be slapped. Not to mention publicly shamed. Go news.com.au for bringing the story to public attention.